why this is so ????????

why this is so ? i can't get it at times.......... i donno why, may be i'm wrong but i can't understant it, why people have a predecided opinion about every thing and every body, why they don't think about every new thing they see or each person they meet? its okay that it'll take time and most of the time we say (and that's true as well) that our life is too small to learn from our own experiences so better to learn from others' experiences, thats reality but still i think that we can't judge every thing like thiis at least in case of those important things which are going to make or mar our life and in case of those people who are very close to our life, we should give them some time to think about them from the very begning. i donno what i'm gonna write here whether i'm able to say what i wanted to say or not but i know it very well that i'm very much confused if you people can help me to come out of it then i'll be thankful to you all:). so yaa i was telling that what i feel is that we can't judge every body with the things we have overheard, and can't comment on that basis as they might think differently.

for example if you love India that doesn't mean that even if you are dying but its must for you to see the world cup match, what i feel is that there is nothing to show in such things rather what is important is to do rather than commenting on others. i won't say or feel that watching match is bad but you must cheer up from the bottom of your heart and that too for the whole of your life, and not only to cricketors but to every body who is doing or wanna do something for our country. if one is doing the same then i'll respect him/her from the bottom of my heart, but if today one is watching all the matches (for entertainment and show off) and tomorrow s/he is caught fighting for an absurd reason of north India - south India or is feeling shame in calling her/himself an Indian or ruining the Indian historical places of monuments or doing something which is against Indian culture and so on, then what is the use of that one day spirit.

actually i have overheard such comments yesterday from some people about some people and i felt bad because though they might or not be good friends but those who were saying so, i have seen them many times playing bad politics or manipulating things in their favour by whatever means and about those they were saying so were actually not so bad rather when ever i got chance to see them i always found them as the followers of truth and favouring the national spirit but due to some or the other reason they were not watching the match with us.

So what i feel is that its not a big deal not to wtch a match, we can't blame them as they are not feeling proud of being Indians, they might be wishing in India's favour by heart but might not have interest in cricket, that is their own perspective, we can't comment like this on them, i feel that if we love our country honestly we must show it through out acts i.e. let out works/hands speak rather than mouth, and that too through out our life not only for a prticular event we are being too much crazy about things and the other moment we are fighting with another Indian on false reasons!!

i think you'll be able to get what i wanted to say and will post your opinions :) waiting for the same!!

hmm, yes
Thank God finally i cud get d way to write on my blog after soooooooooo long.........
well m too happy to write today and i have no words infact to describe my happiness dt finally m going to write here again.
Thank God really............
so tell me wat sud i discuss here or wat sud i share plzzzzzzz tell me
ok i'll tell u wat happened wid me duringh my exams .
i've heard many ppl saying dt there is no God exists wat ever is done is on our own we r d doers of every thing and our will power is d force behind us.
ok i agree with it dt unless we hav a strong will power we cant do any thing
but still a supreme force works there behind us which even regulates our will power, this time i again felt that power. when ppl ask me an example then i find myself lost in the incidents which had happened with me i cant tell one out of them n keep on searching dt which 1 sud b picked up n sud b shared with them n d time goes on in that silence, but this time i wanna share this recent incident .......... i was not feeling well at all, 5 days earlier to my exams but my heart was still praying to God n was telling me agn n agn dt everything gonna b alrit ........ bt mind was telling dt there is no possibility dt i'll b well n b abl to back on d track any ways .......... d day went in dis perplexed situation next day while coming back from d classes my old roomie asked me to join her in combine studies or gd watever ..... n i did it this we did for all those remaining 4 days n thus i had completed my 4 subjects n then it got revised during d exams ......... thank God n m really thankful to her who made it possible for me to revise my course otherwise i cud nvr do it till date i cudn't even complete it once n den before d last exam (5th 1)there was sunday so we had enough time to study (it was left dt time due to holiday)so i went out with my other friend (my best friend, who is my senior at present)to get a ticket for her as her exams got over n c was to leave (actully our works nvr go so easy)so i was praying whole way that God plzz help us n get her seat confirmed n God listened it n blessed us finally we were back in our hostel with a confirm duplicate ticket. k now i was happy n wanted to go to bed n to start my studies from d next morning but this time God directed me from her mouth to start now only so i had to do it b'coz c was feeling guilty as b'coz of her my 3 hours went in vein, bt this was not true as i was in no mood to study dt day n i had no guilty feelings bt c had n was worried abt it so i had to start it n i did. then while leaving c told me to complete it before next dinner n i had to do it (otherwise i wud hav dn it on d monday morning just before my exam) but i promised wid her so i did n God made me to revise d same on d next morning n i did it twice nw i was quite surprised dt hw cud it b possible dt i revised every subject this time at least once otherwise i cud nvr complete it once even. and this was all happening out of my control and nw i was really surprised dt hw it happened no doubt it was all done by the Omnipresent super power i cud nvr do it. Thank God i donno hw to thank U bt m really feeling blessed. Thank God 4 every thing :)!!
that is y i believe in Him He is our Creator, He is always there with us, He always takes care of His children thing is either v know Him by different names or v miss to feel His presence. But, i know God u r here i can't see u but i can feel ur presence, plzz be there 4 ever !! thank God!!

ये रोशनी का दरिया आ गया कहाँ से,
इन अँधेरी गलियों के ख़यालों में।
ये ओस की बूंदे आई कहाँ से,
इन रुखी चट्टानों के चेहरे पे।
ये मौत का साया क्यूँ मंडरा रहा है
इन मासूम कलियों पे।
क्यों तरसती हैं ये माटी,
अपने ही लाडलों की क़ुरबानी को आज?
ये क्या हो रहा है यहां इस झन्झावात में
इतने सवाल हैं उल्टे-सीधे मगर ज़वाब कहाँ?
यही खोजते- खोजते आज मैं
चली आई यहाँ।

let us unite our own India once again!!!!!!!

let us unite our own India once again
n v will rock togater
why there is too much hue n cry
we will have 2 reunite our family
and d Indian family is too big
let us develop Bharat
now we need 2 remove
the Bharat-India divide
how 2 do this n how 2 start
just think over itn make a path
over which d new generation can grow
where v can see d bright show
where d light of new life comes
d destiny will shine there
d last person will smile there
waiting for d day when
the huge crowd will b converted
into d large men power
d common man will be VIP
d importance will lie in simplicity.
high thinking n hard work will be
d ideal way 2 follow
when v will b togather
in happiness n sorrow
when v will tie our hands togather
d world is going 2 see tomorrow
that once again nothing is left for them
except to follow
Our India n what Indians say.
live 4 humanitylive 4 unity
then v will b mature enough
nothing v gain being rude n rough
my dear friends this world is vast n wide enough
to understand d way it goes on
let us follow d way of nature to go ahead
see d world wars r far behind
but the peace is still lost n hide
need 2 think that where 2 find
n how can v make our Mother India proud
that her daughters n sons r not mere crowd
rather they are still wittiest n most sound
oh Mother! v r not mere sleeping in the drought
oh Mother! v r flooded wid ur wisdom
with ur blessings
we r able to touch every corner of the world
wid ur morals e r shining at the top
wid ur values accepted where ever v go
wid ur qualities v r in demand every where
wid ur intellect v r now going to rule the universe
Maa! now v won't let u cry
be happy that now v r no more shy
we have touched d sky
and ruled d surface
we just need 2 prove again
that we have potential to be JAGAT GURU again
even thoug u all have looted us time n again
now we have nothing 2 loose n every thing 2 gain.
sun is going 2 shine once again after rain
so let us unite our own India once again

[now take action 2 fulfil our this dream]
all d best :)

ये ज़िन्दगी एक अजीब कहानी है

ये ज़िंदगी एक अजीब कहानी है

यूँ तो सबकी आँखों में पानी है
पर मेरे मन तेरा नहीं कोई सानी है
क्यों परेशां है तू इस कदर कि
हर मौसम खाली-खाली है
यूँ तो ज़िन्दगी में गम मिले नहीं किसको
पर इतना समझ ले कि यहाँ
हर ख़ुशी तेरी ही परछाई है
क्या कहूँ तुझसे मैं अब मेरे पास
न शब्द बचे और न वाणी है
तू जान सके तो जान ले
ये कहानी नई नहीं पूरानी है
क्यूं गुम है इस भीड़ में इस कदर कि
सोचती हूँ किस कोने में खोजूं तुझे
जाने क्यूँ नहीं मानता तू कि
ये दुनिया अपनी नहीं परायी है
जायेगा जिधर भी ठोकर तो मिलेगी
मगर गिरकर सम्हलना ही जिंदगानी है
यही राज है इस भूलभुलैया सी ज़िन्दगी का
कि इसके हर पल में बसी एक नई कहानी है
संजोले इन यादों की लरीयों को, नहीं तो
गुज़र जायेगा, ये जो बचा, एक बूँद पानी है
जब होता है तू जिसके भी आसपास नहीं समझता कोई
पर जाने के बाद तेरे, तुझे खोजता है हर कोई
सबको प्यार देने कीआदत ने ही
जहां में, तेरी ये अलग पहचान बनायीं है
बनाये रख तू आवाज़ अपनी बुलंद
की जाने के बाद भी तेरे, जहां में गूंजती रहे
यूँ तो यहाँ हर तरफ शोर इस कदर फैला है
जो मधुरतम वाणी को कर्कश बना दे
पर फिर भी यहाँ महापुरुषों का मौन गुंजायमान है
आखिर नहीं पूजता कोई वीरान करने वालों को
तभी तो, यहाँ आज भी सुनाई देती है
उन रन-बांकुरों की निर्भय दस्ताने
जिन्होंने अपने स्वाभिमान की लाज बचायी है
मरते नहीं जो सच्चे संघर्ष में कुर्बान हो
अपनी माँ भी तो उन्ही की कहानी सुनाती है
फिर तू क्यों यूँ बिलख परा आज मेरे मन
जो एक छोटी सी चोट खायी है
देख तो सही एक बार पलट कर, की कितना
खुश नसीब है तू जो, अनायास ही
मुस्कुरा देते है लोग, हँसता देख तुझे
मालूम है मुझे की
ये ज़िन्दगी एक अजीब कहानी है
कभी हंसाती है कभी रुलाती है
पर तू जिंदादिल है इसीलिए तुझको यहाँ
हर मौसम में रात बितानी है
ये जीवन एक अज़नबी पहेली है
यहाँ जीतकर भी हार और
हारकर भी जीत मनानी है

ye zindagi ek azib kahani hai

ye zindagi ek azib kahani hai

yu to sabki aankhon me paani hai

pr mere mann tera nahi koi sani hai

q pareshan hai tu is kadar ki

hr mausam khali khali hai

yu do zindagi me gm mile nahi kisko

pr itna samajh le ki yaha

hr khushi teri hi parchhai hai

kya kahu tujhse mai ab mere paas

na shabd bache or na vani hai

tu jaan sake to jaan le

ye kahani nai nahi purani hai

q gum hai is bheed me is kadar ki

sochti hu kis kone me khoju tujhe

jaane nahi kyu manta tu ki

ye duniya apni nahi parayi hai

jayega jidhar bhi thokar to milegi

magr girkar samhlana hi zindagani hai

yahi raj hai is bhulbhulaiya si zindagi ka

ki iske har pal me basi ek nai kahani hai

sanjo le in yadon ki lariyon ko, nahi to

guzar jayega, ye jo bacha, ek boond pani hai

jb hota hai tu jiske bhi aaspaas nahi samajhta koi

pr jane ke baad tere, tujhe har koi khojata hai

sabko pyar dene ki aadat ne hi

zaha me, teri ye alag pahachan banayi hai

banaye rakh tu aawaz apni buland

ki jane ke baad bhi tere zahan me goonjati rahe

yu to yaha har taraf shor is kadar faila hai

jo madhurtam vani ko karkash bana de

pr fir bhi yaha mahapurushon ka maun gunjayaman hai

aakhir nahi poojata koi veeran karne walon ko

tabhi to, yaha aaj bhi sunayi deti hai

un ran-bankuron ki nirbhaya dastane

jinhone apne swabhimaan ki laaj bachayi hai

marte nahi jo sache sangharsh me kurbaan ho

apni maa bhi to unhi ki kahani sunati hai

fir tu kyu yu bilakh para aaj mere mann

jo ek chhoti si chot khayi hai

dekh to sahi ek baar palat kar, ki kithna

khush naseeb hai tu jo log tujhe hansata dekh

anayas hi muskura dete hai

maloom hai mujhe ki

ye zindagi ek azeeb kahani hai

kabhi hansati hai kabhi rulati hai

pr tu zindadil hai isiliye tujhko yaha

hr mausam me raat bitani hai

ye zeewan ek azanabi paheli hai

yaha jeetkar bhi haar or

haarkar bhi jeet manani hai