Happy Republic Day !!

Think for a while why we remember all this national things or our freedom fighters only on 26th jan or 15th august and why we keep fighting on the rest of the days on any damn issues like state/language/caste/gender or economic/political status, y ?????? please ask your inner self and try to follow the path which your conscious directs :) :) i think that will be the day when we all will think in the same direction and will try to contribute or sacrifice our lives in any way for maintaining the glory of our republic India in the true sense and that will be the day when we will be able to keep our forgotten motto/ spirit of 'unity in diversity' alive in its true nature :) :) .... happy Republic Day!! :) :)

My little opinion on this pious day. :)

Hmm, once again  this pious day has come when we think of our nation, and thins thing leaves many questions behind, like why only one day we need to remember our glorious past? Though we need not live our life in the past as that is already gone nor in future which is yet to come but still while living in the present we must not forget our past struggles and those who fought for us and for our peaceful life, the free air in which we are breathing, because of whom we have our identity, we can sleep without fear, we can speak whatever we want, we are possessing so many rights, because if we will forget our roots them we will no more be able to live a happy and prosperous life nor will be able to grow and will be bound to fall like a rootless tree. Again there is no obligation if you don't want to give credit to any body for your peaceful life, its okay you can fall down happily no body cares but after falling down please don't be hurdle in others' way.

Why we think that we are showing pity for the successors of our freedom fighters by remembering their ancestors, as they are poor and we have  money to buy every thing under the sky?

If you also think like that then stop it and please remember, that we have nothing to show pity about rather they have as they have their glorious history and self respect about which they can always feel proud and what ever we are today, because of their ancestors' contribution, might be there were our ancestors' contribution involved as well but still we need to respect every body or every mankind as they are to part of our human family and we know their contribution and struggles so we should respect them and give them their forgotten honor which they deserve being successors of our great leaders.

Don't know why Lt. Ram Prasad Bismilla's grand son faced too much difficulty to get admission in a University for higher studies, just because he is economically backward, why Lt. Uddham Singh's grand sons are illiterate and bound to carry stones and bricks, and why similar is the situation with generations of other freedom fighters that they are still bound to struggle with poverty and political negligence, how can we forget their contribution so easily, when it all happened not more than 62 years when we ‘the people of India’ got our own constitution which declared our country as Sovereign Socialist Secular Democratic Republic India, where there is no discrimination prevails and we promises to secure justice, liberty, equality and fraternity assuring the dignity of individual and the unity and integrity of the nation, also not more than 65 years when we got freedom because of the struggle of our forgotten beloved ones.

But, its really a cruel truth that their dream India is going in the other direction and no one is there to serve their beloved Mother Land as no Indian exists here all are either Hindu/ Muslim/ Sikkh/ Isai or Bangali/ Gujarati/ Kananr/ Kasmiri/ Punjabi/ Marathi/ Malyali/ Tamil/ Telugu or we can say a divided group of confused people which has lost its unique identity, and where no one understands one’s responsibility rater they know very well how to loot their own home/ family members, where the feeling of humanity is either all over lost or those who possess it are not in position to raise their voice and bound to face troubles.

Today, on this 63^rd Republic Day of India, during the celebrations in our university, there was a question asked i.e. What is the biggest threat to the Indian democracy?

Some said poverty, illiteracy, others said corruption, I too replied the same as lack of unity is the threat, but I am still not satisfied with the answer as I could not explain the thing what I actually wanted to say, so I just hope that I will be able to convey it to you here, J.

Well I think that all the above mentioned things are indirect threats to the Indian democracy, but the real threat is that of our thinking i.e. the threat of the youth, which is going in the wrong direction and reasons of that thinking, can be poverty/ corruption/ lack of our values/ lack of unity/ illiteracy/ lack of the feeling of responsibility etc. We are lacking the feeling of responsibility or failing to understand our duties towards our nation, which we can see in many ways, like we never think of the farmer who is working harder and harder day and night to grow grains for us so that we can live happily; we never bother about the soldier who is not sleeping 24x7 so that we can sleep safely, but have you ever thought that why we all do so and many think that its their job so they are bound to do so, noooooooooo this is not only their job it is easier to say when we look at the things from outside, think of the day when no one will be ready to be a farmer or a soldier, what will we do that day, what will be our situation on that day? We never think of all these things because we are so self- centered that when somebody tries to pull us out of this circle we pull her/him back and get back to our earlier situation like a rubber. But, this attitude wont serve our purpose, though we might get narrow achievements but long term goals cannot be achieved unless we work and walk together and that we can be able to do only when we think of and ready to fulfill our responsibilities towards our own beloved nation, along with people like workers who are nation builders and the farmers and the soldiers who are life saviors.  

So please come together to prove once again that we all are Indians who have unity in diversity, and our heroes are not the political leaders or the movie actors rather our real heroes are the Farmers and the Soldiers. 

अ ज़िन्दगी तू ही बता..!!

अ ज़िन्दगी अब तो बता दे,

 क्या हसरतें हैं तेरी 

क्यूँ हर घडी इतने इम्तिहान लेती है मेरे 

मैं इंसान हूँ भगवान तो नहीं आखिर 

तू ही बता और कहा जाऊं, किस से इत्तिला करूँ 

अब तो रहम कर इस नन्ही सी जान पर 

कितने और उलझे झंझावात पार करने होंगे 

कितनी और तपस्या करनी होगी 

आखिर जीने के लिए, 

मर- मर के जीना तो जीना नहीं 

अ ज़िन्दगी तू ही बता 

कि ये कैसा कटु सत्य है 

कि एक बेटी का जन्म ही मातम के साथ होता है 

कोई क्यों नहीं सोचता है कि

 वो भी एक इंसान है. 

भले बेटा माँ- बाप को लात मारे पर फिर भी 

बेटा घर कि रोनक है, आखिर कैसे?

और उस बेटी ने पैदा होते ही ऐसा कोनसा जुर्म कर दिया 

कि उसे समाज में पराया धन समझा जाता है 

चाहे वो जीवन भर माँ- बाप कि खुशियों के लिए 

तिल- तिल कर मरती रहे, 

चाहे अपनी इच्छाएं मार के, बाप, भाई, पति और बेटे 

के लिए पल- पल बलिदान करती रहे 

अ ज़िन्दगी तू ही बता 

आखिर बेटी ही क्यूँ 

बाबुल का घर छोड़ के पराये घर जाती है ?

क्या उसे अपने माँ- बाप कि सेवा नहीं करनी?

या फिर दुनिया में उसका कोई अपना नहीं?

क्यूँ कभी लड़का ससुराल में नहीं रहता?

अगर इतनी ही बुरी हैं लड़कियाँ तो फिर

क्यूँ चाहिए तुम्हे घर में चाँद सी बहु?

क्यूँ चाहिए माँ तुम्हे पैदा करने को?

क्यूँ माँ ही परिवार कि जिम्मेदारियां लेती है?

क्या पिता का कोई कर्त्तव्य नहीं होता?

क्यों माँ को ही हर कोई इतना सताता है?

क्या पिता ने तुम्हें पैदा नहीं किया?

क्या माँ बस दुनिया- भर कि तपिश सहने को है?

क्यों पिता, माँ का हाथ नहीं बंटाता है?

क्यूँ ज़हाँ कि हर सलाह बेटी, बहन, पत्नी या माँ के लिए है?

क्या पुरुष जाती को इसकी ज़रूरत नहीं या फिर 

उसका फैसला कभी गलत नहीं हो सकता?

क्यूँ पुरुष ही घर का मुखिया होता है?

क्यूँ सबको पालने वाली माँ को ये हक नहीं?

क्यूँ बहन को हमेशा चारदीवारी में पाबंद कर दिया जाता है?

बस केवल कथित सम्मान के नाम पर 

क्या पुरुष का चरित्रवान होना ज़रूरी नहीं?

क्यूँ कोई यह समझता है कि, जिस नारी को 

सरस्वती, लक्ष्मी और दुर्गा मानकर पूजा जाता है?

क्यूँ उसे साक्षात् रूप में पैरों टेल कुचला जाता है?

आखिर जुर्म क्या है, कसूर क्या है उसका?

क्यूँ उसे सामान कि तरह इस्तेमाल किया जाता है?

क्या उसका स्वयं कोई वर्चस्व नहीं?

क्यूँ उसके अधिकारों का इस कदर हनन होता है?

क्यूँ उसकी बुलंदियों को आसमान नहीं मिलता?

क्यूँ उसकी इच्छाओं का गला घोंट दिया जाता है?

एक बार सोच कर तो देखो, कि 

क्या अस्तित्व होता तुम्हारा एक माँ बिना?

क्या कोई अपना निवाला देता तुम्हे माँ बिना?

क्या कोई परवाह करता तुम्हारी बहन बिना?

क्या कोई साया बनता तुम्हारा पत्नी बिना?

क्या कोई सपने साकार करता तुम्हारे बेटी बिना?

फिर क्यों कोई भी क़द्र नहीं करता इनके प्यार कि?

क्यों कोई अहमियत नहीं समझता इनकी?

जब तलक ये सब है दुनिया में 

पुरुष जाती इनकी इज्ज़त नहीं करेगी

बस जब ये नहीं होंगी या फिर 

जुर्म सह-सह के थक जाएँगी 

और अपनी आवाज़ उठाएंगी तभी कुछ हो सकता है 

तभी वैदिक युग वापिस आ सकता है शायद. 

अ ज़िन्दगी तू ही बता अब और क्या रास्ता बचा है 

सवाल इतने है पैर ज़वाब कोई नहीं 

आखिर क्यूँ?

Sometimes in the life time

Sometimes in the life time

We meet such a divine soul

Who makes us feel so special

Gives us such rich feelings

Which we have never got before

This is the one who completes our life

Fill all the gaps left in it

Whose presence brings happiness to us

Whose company makes us smile

This is a friend

Who makes our life happier

About whom you know within your heart

That owning this pious friendship

Was the most treasurous thing

That is the time when we feel that

This was the best thing happened to us

That this was the most pious thing

Which gives you new heights

To see the horizon of life from different angles

This is the soul stays within your heart

Now no more difference or

distance can prevail there

This is the one who brings the inner spark

Within your heart

About whom you can feel like

This is something of your very own

This was the thing happened to you

Most naturally even when

You are old enough to make your decisions

While considering all pros and cons

But still this was something which

Once again made you insane and innocent

And you were not able to think any

Questions like right or wrong in this respect

This becomes the moment

When you feel that this was a new starting

In the journey of your life

And now onwards you become

A reflection of each other.

Please think and suggest

What and why we think or observe a difference among indifferent people? When there is nothing like that, in reality.

Who r we???? hindu or muslim???? when there is "ALI" in diwALI & "RAM" in RAMzan, then y r we thinking that which religion we belong to ???????? plzzzzzzzzzz help India in being united'we are all human being thats all the supreme truth so just follow HUMANITY and also plzzzzzzz do believe in it as all the religins basically teaches only the ways TO BE A REAL HUMAN BEING, NEITHER hindu NOR muslim.'- Ch. Rachana Singh

Plzzzzzzz spread this message not only for one day but for the whole life n i also request to u all to think whether its true or not ..... as i m heartly requesting u only because i have learnt this from the small book of my life....... thanks a lot for reading this :)

I’ve luckily found good friends among so called hindus as well as muslims …….. but for me they are just my friends nothing more or less then that n I love them all J may God bless every body with such a nice experience and friends so that this ridiculous difference on the baseless basis of religion or caste can be removed.

And the only religion i.e. Humanity can prevail in all over the world J

Hope, I could convey what I wanted to convey in the simple sense, hope you will suggest if i’m wrong some where ……… rest you are always free to agree to disagree as its just my opinion but I wud always like to request that at least the readers wud at least think in this direction for a while.

Thanks a lot J

one thing which i m bound to think many times when i observe many incidents.

donno when and how our thinking and perspective can be changed

WE MUST THINK THAT WHEN HE, the almighty, HAS NO DISCRIMINATION Y SHOULD WE DIVIDE HUMANS AS GIRLS OR BOYS. WE MUST ALSO THINK THAT WHY WE PLAY WITH TWO FACES, as ON THE ONE HAND WE WORSHIP WOMEN AS GODDESS OF POWER i.e. MAA DURGA, GODDESS OF WEALTH i.e. MAA LAKSHMI AND GODDESS OF KNOWLEDGE i.e. MAA SARASWATI BUT ON THE OTHER SIDE WE HATE OUR DAUGHTERS Y DIS IS SOOOOOOO???????/

PLZZ HAVE A LOOK AT TWO HAPPY LIVING FAMILIES WHERE ONLY 2 GIRL CHILDREN AND WHERE ONLY 2 BOY CHILDREN R THERE AND TRY TO COMPAIR THAT U WILL FIND A KIND OF PEACE, SATISFACTION AND HAPPINESS WHERE A DAUGHTER IS THERE AND WHERE THERE IS NO DAUGHTER U WILL FIND THAT THERE IS SOMETHING IS MISSING IN THAT FAMILY TO BE A COMPLETE FAMILY ........

STILL THE WORST THING IS THAT WHEN A MOTHER OR GRAND MOTHER DONT WANT A GIRL CHILD Y ??????? Y DONT THEY THINK THAT THEY WERE ALSO A GIRL CHILD WHEN THEY TOOK BIRTH AND THEN ASK THEM WHO ONLY LIKE TO HAVE A MALE CHILD AND NO FEMALE CHILD THAT WHEN THEIR SONS ARE YOUNG Y THEY WANT TO SEE THEM GETTING MARRIED BECAUSE THE PERSON WHOM THEY WANT AS THEIR NEW FAMILY MEMBER WILL ALSO BE A GIRL, SO Y THEY WANT HER NOW WHEN THEY HAVE NO COURAGE TO HAVE A GIRL CHILD OR WHY THEY FEAR TO GIVE BIRTH TO A GIRL CHILD AND TO BROUGHT HER UP THEY MUST BE PROHIBITED TO MARRY OFF THEIR SONS.

the moment this will happen all will be bound to think in the right direction and will start respecting girls as well.

HOPE THE DAY WILL COME SOON WHEN THERE WILL BE EQUALITY ON THE BASIS OF GENDRE, CASTE, SEX AND RELIGION ETC. AND WE WILL OBSERVE THE DECLINING RATE OF CRIMES AGAINST FEMALES.

सबसे हसीं मुलाक़ात ..!!

ये परियों की रानी

और वो फरिश्तों का शहज़ादा

मिले कुछ यूँ किसी मोड़ पर कि

अभी बाकी था रास्ता आधे से ज्यादा

मिल तो चुके थे ये पहले भी कई बार यूँही

आज तो मिलना हुआ था यूँ अनायास ही

नहीं तो भूले-भटके एक-दूजे को याद कर लिया जाता

मग़र आजकुछ हुआ यूँ कि सारी यादें हो गईं ताज़ा

जाने ये कैसी मुलाक़ात थी

जिसने भी देखा, कहा कुछ ख़ास थी

फ़रिश्ते कुछ मौन थे तो

परियां कुछ गंभीर थीं

जब मालूम हुआ कि बात क्या थी

तो भी सबकी आँखें कुछ नम थीं

मग़र ग़मगीन नहीं, साथ में

अधरों पर मुस्कराहट भी थी

जानते हो क्यूँ, क्यूंकि

ये मुलाक़ात ही कुछ ख़ास थी

क्यूंकि आज वही हुआ जिसकी

सबको बरसों से आस थी

आज तलक उनके बीच केवल दोस्ती थी

मग़र अब ये रिश्तों कि डोरी और भी गहरी थी

क्यूंकि आज तलक जो संग खेले थे

अब वो संग जियेंगे भी

इस फलक से उस फलक तक

हर दिशा के दरमियाँ आज

बस खुशियाँ ही खुशियाँ थी

फरिश्तों का शहज़ादा अब परियों का राजा था

परियों कि रानी अब फरिश्तों कि शहजादी थी

आज हवाओं को घूमने कि आज़ादी थी

तो क्षितिजपर ज़मी गगन से जा मिली थी

नज़ारे तो हसीं होने ही थे

दो हसीं नज़रें जो मिली थी

यही ज़माने कि सबसे हसीं मुलाक़ात थी